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How to stop foul language? Forums on the Internet are full of advice, psychologists make recommendations and comments, articles from word to word repeat the same abstruse phrases. And the people continue to use the abusive speech in everyday life. All this is utter nonsense. Let's figure it out.
Piggy bank method
Already a long time ago it became the talk of the town how to use the piggy bank. It is proposed for each strong mot, pronounced out loud, to lower there the coin of a certain denomination. The people even go about the anecdote about the hapless workers of one shop who wanted to stop foul in this way.
Sorry, but this option will only work on really greedy people. Generous in nature comrades will be generous to both scolding and coins. It is doubtful that the person stopped swearing, having regretted 5 or 10 rubles.
Conclusion: often does not work.
Pain method
Another way widely advertised as a super mate remedy. It is advised to wear a gum on the wrist. It hurts every time to click on her if a curse pops out. Or ask a friend.
Sorry, everyone's sensitivity is different, and a friend may not be a friend at all. And what if the authorities unreasonably offended or on the road cut the flyer? Just beat off your wrist? So after all, many and swearing from the pain! It turns out a double-edged sword.
Conclusion: it works if a person is psychologically afraid of pain.
Method of increasing vocabulary
It is interesting. Did you know that Pushkin was the most famous young woman of her time? Yes, yes, that one. But this did not prevent him from becoming a great poet. And his vocabulary was hoo!
Conclusion: the method does not work if the person is used to talking on the mat, and not to use it from time to time.
Replacement method
Everything is simple here. It is recommended to replace swear words with similar ones. Or use another word altogether. How was Dontsova offered there? Instead of a florid three-story, say: “Health and happiness to you!”
It will be interesting to sound such a phrase, if at night your little finger will meet with furniture. Or the boss will begin to chastise "in French," and you give him health and happiness ... Can you imagine the expression on his face?
Well, in general, the option can be used. Especially if you can control yourself. After all, "whore" always sounds more decent "b ... d".
Conclusion: the way works. But there is one drawback. You can get too carried away, and then your speech will begin to be replete with words-parasites.
Silence method
Every time you want to vymateritsya, just close your mouth. Squeeze your teeth, let the air out, hit the wall with your fist, but keep quiet. The method is very good. But, unfortunately, it helps only those who curse from an overabundance of emotions. If your mat is a gap between words, then this option will not work for you. Otherwise, you will have to close your mouth after each spoken word.
Conclusion: works, but not at all.
Art method
Listen, why stop quitting at all? After all, you can build a profanity speech to the rank of art. Remember Russian chastooshka, or shameful poems of the 17-18 centuries. How gracefully used abusive phrases. Capacious, scathing, without unnecessary abundance. And what's stopping you to stop talking on the mat, only occasionally inserting strong words?
Answer honestly? Your stupidity. Offensively? Still, who agrees to consider himself as such. But let's face it. Can you write something like that? Not even a poem, but a ditty? If it's easy, then let me take my words back. And if not - then stop already using foul language as a port loader. And use the abuse only in place.
In addition, sometimes the elegant use of one dirty word makes much more impression than speech, consisting entirely of mat.
Conclusion: for a person who is far from art, the method is useless.
Shame method
Every felon in his life has a man in which he is ashamed to express himself in a dirty manner. It is proposed to represent this behind your back whenever you want to use foul language. In this case, be sure to express an expression of extreme horror on his face.Say, how are you so, swear obscenities?
In theory, a certain psychological barrier should work, and an obscene expression will not be able to get off the lips.
Conclusion: the way helps only to people who are particularly impressionable and with good imagination.
Scream method
Instead, the mat is proposed to shout out any vowel letter. Long and lingering. Will it be "a" or "y" - does not matter. In principle, a good option. But he also acts only in certain situations. For example, striking a finger with a hammer can still engrave any letter. But if swear words are present in speech for a bunch of words, then replacing them with letters will not work.
Conclusion: the method works if a person does not use foul language.
Exclusion method
Small children do not know how to swear. Their vocabulary is replenished with dirty words from the inner circle. If the crumb has never heard the mat in his life, then he will not use it in his speech. So are teenagers and adults. Starting to communicate with foul language, they do not notice how gradually, but surely, the mat enters their vocabulary.
Therefore, it is recommended to exclude from the circle of their communication people who use foul language. Then they themselves stop expressing themselves ugly.
This is another recommendation from a very fashionable psychology now. It does not correspond to reality at all. Several of my new friends, communicating with me, never began to curse. Yes, and I did not cease to use foul language, listening to their clear speech. We are not what parrots, repeat after each other. Imitation is characteristic of monkeys and crazy fans. Adequate people are not threatened.
Or, for example, a man is your best friend (friend). Or maybe it's parents? Brothers, sisters? They are also excluded from the circle of their communication, as long as they do not foul? What nonsense.
Conclusion: the method does not work.
Method of self-control
Perfect option. It always works by 200%. I myself have so stopped foul language. Totally. Even on emotions or pain. You just need to exclude foul language from your vocabulary. Forever and in any situation.
At first it was hard, because the habit of cursing was formed over the years. But after all, changing any habit is enough to not do it for 21 days.
And here there is one important nuance. Some give promises to themselves, relatives, friends. Someone renounce or even swear. Do not. Why this inappropriate pathos and show-off? To whom are these people, and most importantly - what exactly are they trying to prove?
Those who have chosen this option of getting rid of foul language need only one thing - to want it. Very much. If a person does not want to stop, then give him at least three times a terrible oath, he will still swear. Therefore, if you want, it will be very easy for you to stop talking foul language.
Conclusion: the method works, but with an important nuance.
How to stop foul language? It is difficult, but doable. Start with self-control and ability to close your mouth in time. I'm sure you will succeed.
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