How to understand that a man fell out of love: characteristic signs

Divination on the daisy and coffee grounds, walking on fortune-tellers and grandmothers. The woman, who has decided that the man has cooled down to her, is ready for desperate acts and experiments, to be sure: he still loves. She consults with her friends, passes all sorts of tests on the Internet and fashion magazines. Although it is enough to trace the behavior of a husband or a boy, to understand: there is hope or has long since died.

Kis-bunny

People in love come up for the second half lovely nicknames that symbolize their feelings and reverent attitude to the object of sighs. If the usual “bunnies”, “suns” disappeared from the lexicon of the men, and the word “dear” becomes uneasy, it’s time to think about what went wrong.

Important: The rule does not apply to men who are stingy with tenderness and romantic deeds will gladly repair the faucet in the bathroom, but will not spend hours telling Blok or Yesenin's poems.

Instead of sweet-sugary nicknames, a couple may use code words or phrases whose meaning is known only to two. Worry is, if a man does not give the usual answer, or starts to get angry, and declares "What kind of kindergarten?".

Peekaboo

It is impossible to be with one person in a close space 24 hours a day, and not to hate him. A man needs time to take a break from her lover, to miss her chatter. Some are reinstated at work, others need extra hours, which they spend on gathering with friends or designing a toy airplane model.

If the second half asks not to distract him before 8 pm from the computer or reading books, this is normal. It is worth sounding the alarm when a man tries to linger at work with reports, slip away over the weekend to friends at the cottage, leaving the woman alone with himself, children or pets. He refuses to go to the cinema, does not invite to restaurants, and is not happy when the second half is preparing a romantic dinner for him.

A cold man does not want to spend time with his woman, from whom he could not tear himself away.He does not dare to tell her that the feelings are dead, he can blame himself, so he tries to hide from his former lover. It hangs around the clock on the Internet, plunges headfirst into work or computer games, spends its free time in the company of comrades, or even another woman.

Important: Some men from the category of workaholics and careerists like to stay up late over the next project, because they like to work. Do not be jealous of his documents, or accuse of indifference.

There is no love without tenderness

The passion that made spending nights in each other's arms gradually fading away. The concentration of hormones in the blood decreases, and people focus on career, children and other household trifles. Normally, if a man becomes less sexually active than at the beginning of a relationship. It is bad when he ceases to care about the second half:

• She doesn’t cover her with a blanket when she falls asleep on the sofa, or doesn’t take her to bed.
• She used to spoil breakfast in bed, but now she refuses to make a cup of tea.
• Leaves with friends in a bar when his girlfriend is at home with a cold and high fever.
• He does not look into his eyes for more than 10 seconds, although he could not take his eyes off his beloved before.
• He prefers to read a newspaper at breakfast and dinner, or “stick” to the TV.
• Hints or directly says that they have no common topics for conversation with a woman.
• Going to work, instead of lips kissing on the cheek, or avoids any tenderness.
• Hides his hand in his pockets when the second half tries to take his hand.

Important: If a man does not open the door, or does not give a coat, does not mean that he has fallen out of love. Perhaps he was not brought up by a gentleman. It is advisable to worry when a guy offers to solve his problems on his own, and not to take time away from him.

Overweight and small breasts

A man in love sees his woman perfect, cooled looking for a thousand and one flaws.

1. He suddenly declares: “How long can you walk in this baggy jumpsuit? You do not see how the neighbor with 5 apartments dresses? Why do I need such a scarecrow?
2. Regularly hints that it's time to lose weight. Humiliates and calls the fat.
3. Borsch is constantly over-salted, cutlets undercooked or burnt. And in general, his lover began to cook something disgusting, although she used to be a cooking genius in the eyes of a man.
4. The woman has sagging breasts, wrinkles have appeared, and something she does not reach to the level of 18-year-old girls with elastic forms.
5. The hair is terrible, the clothes are tasteless, the perfume is disgusting. Why no makeup? Gathered on the panel, or why these red lips and arrows on the eyes?

A man who has fallen out of love becomes irritable, constantly criticizes the appearance and behavior of a woman. Hates her traits, makes remarks, sometimes in the presence of friends or in public places. He seems to convince himself that it is she who is to blame for the lack of feelings, so he deserves to be abandoned.

Cool feelings, no sex

A man refuses sex, arguing the reluctance of fatigue or lack of mood? If this happens periodically, there are no reasons for panic. Sometimes the work takes all the power, and the beloved wants to quickly stuff himself a dinner, lie down in a warm bath, and crawl to the bed. It is worth thinking about when sex disappears from the life of a couple.

A man fell out of love if:

1. A woman buys seductive lingerie, comes up with various ways of seduction, but he indifferently shrugs, and turns away from the wall.
2. Sex lasts a maximum of 5 minutes, after which the partner moves back to his half, and pretends to be asleep.
3. A man prefers to rest in different rooms, or stay up late at the TV or at the computer so that the girl does not bother him with her desires.
4. Angry when a woman accuses him of being cool. In response, she calls her a naughty and anxious.

Important: Sometimes a man refuses sex because of problems with potency, but does not recognize his lover that he has lost an erection. The true reason can be found by asking your partner directly.

No future

If a man fell out of love, he ceases to share his thoughts with the second half, does not tell how the working day passed. Closes in itself, does not make plans. When he speaks of dreams, he only mentions himself: “I will collect for a car. I need to buy an apartment. I want to rest on the sea next year. ” A woman as if disappears from his life, becomes an insignificant detail that does not need to be included in her plans.

Hard methods

Sadistic men who cannot directly tell the other half that love has passed begin to play with her feelings, forcing her to leave.They are not just looking for flaws, but prefer to compare a woman with others, talk about past relationships, and the skill of the former.

Others give birth to a mistress, and do not try to hide this fact from a permanent partner. Some lure strangers in bars, and spend the night at new friends. They disappear for a few days or weeks, and return home as if nothing had happened. They understand that they hate their woman, but instead of leaving, they enjoy her suffering.

Tip: If fate is faced with just such an instance, do not think that love and patience will change the situation. Psychologists recommend to take courage, and cut off all ties to give yourself hope for a new and happy relationship.

Third wheel

Sometimes a man's feelings fade away because another lover appears in his life. It is possible to recognize the presence in the relationship of a third person if:

1. He preferred to spend his free time on the couch in front of the TV, but he suddenly signed up for the gym, and every morning he goes for a run, not offering to join him.
2. A man does not leave the apartment unshaven or unkempt, bought perfumes and a couple of decent suits.
3. He does not let go of the phone, constantly writes messages or talks to someone in another room, trying not to be heard.

A man who no longer loves a soul mate, is not jealous of her familiar guys and colleagues. He does not try to cheer a woman up, does not give flowers even for his birthday or March 8th. It is as if he is building an invisible wall, and the subconscious tells the girl: “That's all.”

The only thing that a woman can do in such a situation is to accept, not be humiliated, and leave with dignity. Attempts to keep a man either fail, or make both partners unhappy. It is better to break off a relationship, and allow the wound to drag out over time, than to suffer for the rest of your life, and make your loved one suffer.

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