How to meet a girl on the street

Sympathy is quite unpredictable. When a man likes a girl, it's hard to say for sure what exactly attracts him. The fundamental factor is the gait, smile, appearance or manner of conversation. The most courageous representatives of the strong half of humanity prefer to meet on the street. Actions are difficult to call easy, so it is important to adhere to certain instructions. Experienced pikapery advised to pay attention to the psychological aspects. Consider them in order.

Appearance

1. It is no secret that girls are attracted to tidy, self-confident men. For this reason, before proceeding to the manipulations, we recommend to put yourself in order.
2. Special attention is paid to clothing, it should be clean and ironed.To win over the beautiful lady, give preference to the classical style. The ideal option would be loose pants without arrows, shirt, jacket in the style of "street".
3. A man is determined by three things: shoes, watches, perfume. Make your shoes or shoes look stylish. They do not have to be expensive, as long as there are no Chinese inscriptions.
4. As for watches and perfume, choose products of famous brands. It's not about the price, but about the quality. A fake is not so difficult to determine, "advanced" girls will cope with this in two ways.
5. If you belong to the category of bearded, tidy up the facial hair. Visit the barber shop, conduct the appropriate care manipulations. It is also important to take care of the haircut, manicure and skin (it should not contain black dots).
6. It is important to remember forever that men should look after themselves. It is not necessary to turn into a "sweet boy", it is enough to follow the basic rules. Smokers should use a mouth freshener to eliminate unpleasant odors.

First meeting

1. If you want to meet a girl on the street, it is important to remember the basic aspects. As a rule, the beautiful half of humanity moves from point A to point B. If we are talking about cultural places (park, main streets, etc.), there you can meet a leisurely strolling lady.
2. First of all, assess the circumstances in which the first contact will take place soon. If you notice a girl who leisurely walks and examines everything around, you can get to know her. In cases where the lady rush, sweeping away all around, leave her alone.
3. Make eye contact, catch her gaze for 4-5 seconds. Psychologists say that during this period the girl can be subdued. Proceed as follows: caught the eye - smiled - said “Hi!”.
4. Approach the lady in such a way as to be in sight. The best option for communication is the distance of 45-60 cm. Do not violate personal space, otherwise the girl may be frightened.
5. Well, if you will meet. It is important not to block the young lady’s path, but to keep a little to the left / right of her line of movement. Do not sneak up behind you, it will frighten the "prey" and force it to accelerate the step.
6. When you walk up to the girl and stop her with your eyes, turn the body a little (the position is “half a turn”). Such a move will tell the lady that she can leave when she wants. Do not stand "nose to nose", you are not so close to each other.
7. You kept her eyes, smiled and got a smile in response, but the lady still does not keep up the pace? Slightly go around it, but do not block the road. After that, try to meet. No need to stop the lady in motion, grabbing the hands. Such a move is regarded as rudeness, you are doomed to failure.
8. It is unacceptable to touch the girl's body, even in a random way. For this, there is a personal space of 45-60 cm. If you want to meet a lady who sits on a bench, do not hang over her. Bend down slightly to be on its level. You can also sit down next, then start a conversation.

Method number 1. Introduction to the excuse

Acquaintance with the preposition is also called the “context approach”. In this case, the guy turns to the girl to give advice or ask for help.

1. The most common option is information about the territorial location.You can find out how to find the nearest ATM or go to Cosmonauts Avenue. Any excuse that you get an answer will do.
2. You should not be interested in complex things. In this case, you risk getting an answer "Sorry, I don't know." This is the end of the “entertaining” dialogue.
3. You can meet at the bus stop. It is enough to meet a pretty young lady and learn from her how to get to Pushkin Square.
4. Girls love animals. You can seduce a beautiful young lady by finding out from her the address of the nearest pet shop. Well, if at this moment you will be holding in your hands a yard kitten that needs to be fed.
5. Another pretext for dating would be gathering information about pizzerias or Japanese restaurants in the city. Look like a promoter doing a poll. After that, invite a lady to one of her favorite places.
6. Try to meet a girl by commenting on the events. For example, you can talk about the weather or musical composition, reaching from a passing car.
7. If you have a great sense of humor, you can let an interesting joke go. Such a move will relax the lady and arrange it for you.Only in no case do not joke in a piquant or vulgar style.
8. After you ask a question or contact a lady with another plausible excuse, listen carefully to the answer. Look for clues that will allow you to continue the dialogue in a more straightforward form.

Method number 2. Original acquaintance

The modern world leaves its mark on society. More and more beautiful ladies are interested in impudent men who possess irony, arrogance and gallantry (3 in one).

1. It is important to remember forever that the original ("pickup") approach should be used very carefully. If you are not sure about your own capabilities, better consider another option. The technique is designed for courageous men without complexes (self-confident).
2. The original acquaintance is as follows: you let go a couple of jokes, or you seduce a young lady, as they say, on the go. Shaking and at the same time, a sweet phrase should shock the lady, forcing her to answer you.
3. For example, you made eye contact and received a smile in return. Go to the girl with the words: "It seemed to me, or your eyes shine cooler than a diamond?".After that, do not take your eyes off as long as you can.
4. Another option is considered the role of the victim: “Hi! Call an ambulance please! You hurt me with Cupid's arrow! ” If a girl smiles, she is fine with a sense of humor. Ask how good a pick up artist is.
5. If for certain reasons you have encountered a girl on the street several times, draw attention to this: “Lady, you dreamed of me today! I fall in love with you again and again! ” It sounds frivolous, but some ladies will like this train of thought.
6. You can intrigue the beautiful half of humanity with the phrase “You are amazing! Today, not all girls can boast of natural beauty, but you did it! ” Such a move at the same time carries a "tackle" and a compliment.

Method number 3. Familiarity without tricks

This version of dating will allow the girl to understand why you stopped her on the street.

1. The direct approach is as follows: you greet the girl, give her a compliment, start a dialogue. If the lady is free, there is a great chance for a successful continuation of communication. In cases where a girl refuses, she is not interested in casual acquaintances.
2. When you notice a young lady walking slowly, try to stop her unobtrusively. Suitable option: "Hi! Sorry if I distract. Could you give me 2 minutes? I want to talk! ” For the allotted time you need to say the maximum number of compliments or hook the girl in another convenient way.
3. You can also greet the young lady, then immediately report that you liked her. It is important to know in advance about the marital status of the girl. Thus, you will not put her in an awkward situation that will arise in the case of forced communication.
4. It is known that girls love ears. Say as many compliments as possible while trying to be unobtrusive. Create a favorable environment for dating. If it is cold outside, offer to transfer the conversation to the cafe with the words “I treat you!”.

Practical recommendations

1. If the acquaintance was successful, and you got the attention of a beautiful lady, go to the plan "X". At this stage, the situation can turn around in two ways: you will exchange phones or arrange an appointment soon. If the girl has time, invite her to the cinema, and before that visit the pizzeria / Japanese restaurant. In cases where the beautiful lady is in a hurry, postpone the meeting for the evening.It is important not to delay communication, so that the conquered party does not change its mind.
2. There are often situations when a man liked a girl in the company of a friend or mother. In this case, refer to the lady's companion with the words: "Allow me to steal your girlfriend for one minute?". If you were given a go-ahead, arouse an interest in the girl in one of two ways (pick-up or direct) Do not forget to exchange phone numbers or give your number. Be sure to inform that you will wait for a call in the near future. Follow the scheme: first enchant the company, then ask the girl to give you time.
3. Throughout the dating try to behave at ease. The girl should not see your nervousness, ladies attract confident men. Avoid trembling voice, do not put your hands on your chest, do not get too close. No need to actively gesticulate with hands, speak emotionally, but not loudly. The main goal is the following: you need to charm the girl in the first 2 minutes, otherwise she will get bored. As a rule, young ladies who are ready for new relationships meet each other on the streets.

What to talk about with a girl

A well-chosen topic of conversation is an important aspect of further communication. If the girl gets bored, she will quickly find a pretext to avoid your company.

1. In the process of dating, try to give answers to questions of interest to the lady. She wants to know who you are, why you decided to introduce her and why you chose her. It is known that many men are dangerous. In this way, the girl should protect herself.
2. Convince the lady that you are not a threat to her. For this reason, it is recommended to meet in the afternoon. Talk delicately and politely, so that the girl does not confuse you with the sellers of cosmetics, goodbye or promoters. Be sure to mention that you are studying or working close by. Such a move will create the feeling that you are an adequate guy.
3. From the first minute of dating, try to clarify the reason for your behavior. Let the girl know that you chose her because of sympathy. Tell them you want to know how beautiful she is inside as well as outside.
4. The topic of dialogue can be completely unpredictable. By tradition, focus on the weather and work, then you can switch to active sports, favorite music and hobbies.Find out what the young lady does in her free time, what position she holds, etc. Tell us a little about yourself: what you do, food preferences, love for animals, and so on.

To meet a girl on the street, you need to follow simple rules. Tidy hair, shoes, clothes, beard (if available). Do not block the path of the lady, think up in advance a topic for conversation. Choose one of the methods you like, then proceed to the manipulation. In no case do not joke in the vulgar form, do not be rude in response.

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